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When You Say "I Believe You."
When you say you believe me, I have more feelings than I know what to do with. I've never been great with managing my feelings, but...
Jun 19, 20212 min read

All I Want
I am painfully aware of how hard it must be to support me sometimes. I'm not always good at explaining why something is not helpful. I'm...
Jun 12, 20212 min read


Marley House Ribbon Cutting
BILLINGS, MONTANA (June 5, 2021) — Safe House Project's team had the privilege of speaking at the ribbon cutting for the HER Campaign’s...
Jun 9, 20211 min read

Danger, When I was Supposed to be Safe
I remember the first time I saw a snake, Curled up inside my Cozy Coupe Calling to mind my Girl Scout Training Hershey’s kisses on its...
Jun 5, 20212 min read

Labels are for Cans, but Language is for People
I had a teacher tell me once that labels were for cans. As a little middle schooler desperately trying to fit in by denouncing labels...
May 29, 20212 min read

The Always Something Friend
"Sunday, I had a trauma anniversary. A big one. I was terrified that the minute I was alone, all of the horrible things would come...
May 22, 20213 min read

RaeAnn Hancock of NTT DATA Services Joins Safe House Project Board of Directors
WASHINGTON, D.C. (May 19, 2021)—Safe House Project, a non-profit organization and national leader in the fight against Domestic Sex...
May 19, 20213 min read

Celebrating Every Step
Healing isn't linear, it is a journey--a complicated amalgamation of memories, emotions, people, and spaces. I know some days you feel...
May 15, 20211 min read

Mom. A complicated word.
One of my biggest struggles is my longing for a mom. I have a biological mother. She is a complicated part of my life. I never had a mom...
May 9, 20212 min read

Guest Post: Battles Won In The Dark
One of our survivors at the HER Refuge confronted me about our social media pages the other day. “You make this journey seem easy, but...
May 8, 20213 min read

Dear Advocate
Dear Advocate, You are doing good work. You don’t hear that enough. You are doing good work. The work you are doing matters. Every dollar...
May 1, 20212 min read

The world needs you
In the time I’ve been writing, I’ve had handfuls of stories from other survivors placed in my lap. I’ve done my best to sit with them in...
Apr 25, 20212 min read

Unlearning what is untrue
The medical profession is without question the home to some of the brightest minds on the planet. And it makes sense why--it takes far...
Apr 21, 20212 min read

protecting our military kids
Military children will say goodbye to more significant people by age 18 than the average person will in their lifetime.
Apr 18, 20212 min read

CHANGE OF PERSPECTIVE - LOVE
“Unworthy. Undeserving. Unlovable. Those words have been branded on me since I was 4 years old. No one ever told me it could be...
Apr 9, 20213 min read

CHANGE OF PERSPECTIVE - ADVOCACY
“I had been taught all my life I didn’t deserve an advocate. I didn’t know what to do with myself when the advocates in my life began to...
Apr 3, 20212 min read

Brush Your Teeth...Not A Simple Task
I don’t know how to brush my teeth. I know what you’re thinking: “You’re 24 years old. What do you mean you don’t know how to brush your...
Mar 27, 20213 min read

Change of Perspective - Doctors
“Every medical professional I seemed to run into I felt like didn’t have the information they needed. They either didn’t know how to help...
Mar 12, 20212 min read

Run
I run because running for my life is no longer self preservation, but self love. I run because it teaches me again and again not how my...
Mar 12, 20211 min read

A Turtle Does Not Belong On A Freeway
Right now, I feel a lot like a turtle. I lived my life in my little terrarium, unaware of the wide world outside of it. I found comfort...
Feb 25, 20212 min read
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